Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.
I originally started my journey into kink as a sub, back when I was 19. I hung out at the edges of the local BDSM community and watched at a few parties, but wasn’t brave enough to play with anyone. It wasn’t til I started dating my first boyfriend that I had the opportunity to start exploring my submissive side, and I ended up wearing a collar for him for three years.
After my first Dom and I broke up, I decided to see how things felt from the toppy side of the kink equation and found out that I was quite good at hurting people in ways they enjoyed. 😉 I’ve had several play toys in the last few years, male and female, and definitely enjoy topping them.
Currently I ID as a switch with strong Domme leanings. I have had a Sir for over two years now, and while I love submitting to him, I mostly Domme others now. It takes one hell of a strong will to make me submit to them. 🙂