Day 17: What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up?
Hrm. One of my pet peeves is the assumption that if you’re into kink, you *must* have been abused or are mentally, because no ‘normal’ person would like kinky sex. Riiiight. *rolls eyes* I know kinky people who have a history of mental illness or abuse, sure. But for them, they use BDSM as a way to deal with their issues, and it seems to help rather than hurt. I also know people who are ‘normal’ (no history of abuse, no mental health issues, nada) who love kink as well. Sometimes, you just need a spanking.